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Welcome to week 10 of Wonder Weeks: a year of creativity, curiosity and connections. ☀️ This Week’s Theme: Feel It, Name It!
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🌱 Opening Reflection: Feel It, Name It! Week
Your child didn't come with an emotional instruction manual.
And honestly? Neither did you.
Learning to name feelings, navigate friendships, and manage disappointment isn't something that happens in a single conversation or a good day.
It happens slowly. In small moments. When a block tower gets knocked over and someone cries. When a friend takes the toy first. When the game doesn't go the way they planned.
Those moments aren't interruptions to childhood. They are childhood.
This week, we're not trying to eliminate the hard feelings.
We're building the language, the awareness, and the early tools children need to move through them — with your support right beside them.
That's not soft parenting. That's brain science.1️⃣ The Feelings Charades Game
Purpose: Build emotional vocabulary and body awareness through movement and play.
Materials
Feelings cards (draw simple faces on index cards: happy, sad, angry, scared, surprised, silly)
Optional: small mirror
Setup
Before starting, say:
"Today we're feelings detectives. Our job is to show a feeling with our whole body — no words allowed."
Spread the cards face down in a pile.
How to Play
Child picks a card.
They act out the feeling using only their face and body.
You guess the feeling.
Switch roles — you act, they guess.
After each round, ask: "When do you feel that way?"
If they get stuck: Use the mirror. "What does your face do when you're angry? Show me."
No wrong answers. Just noticing.
Friction Point
Putting a feeling into a body when the feeling isn't present yet.
That gap between naming and performing is where emotional awareness grows.
Skills Built
🧠 Emotional vocabulary 👀 Body awareness 🤝 Perspective taking
2️⃣ The Kindness Rock Garden
Purpose: Connect feelings of warmth and care to a concrete, visible act.
Materials
Smooth rocks (2–4)
Washable paint or markers
Optional: small tray or box for display
Setup
Say:
"Sometimes we feel good when we do something kind. Today we're making kindness rocks — one for someone we love."
Let the child choose who each rock is for.
How to Play
Child decorates each rock — a color, a face, a heart, a pattern.
As they work, ask: "What do you want this person to feel when they see it?"
When finished, help them deliver or display the rocks.
After delivery, ask: "How did that feel to give something you made?"
Keep the conversation light. Let their answers lead.
Friction Point
Making something for someone else — not themselves.
That small act of intentional giving is empathy in practice.
Skills Built
💛 Empathy 🎨 Creative expression 🤝 Prosocial behavior
3️⃣ Cooperative Tower Challenge
Purpose: Practice sharing, taking turns, and repairing when things go wrong — all inside a shared goal.
Materials
Blocks / Magnatiles / LEGO
Timer (optional)
Setup
Explain:
"We're building this tower together. That means we each add one piece at a time. If it falls, we don't give up — we rebuild."
Agree on a goal together: "How tall should we try to make it?"
How to Play
Take turns adding one piece at a time.
If the tower falls — pause before rebuilding. Say: "Uh oh. How do you feel right now? What should we do?"
Rebuild together.
Celebrate completion as a team.
If frustration spikes during a fall: Name it first. "That was disappointing. It's okay to feel that." Then redirect. "Ready to try again?"
Friction Point
The tower falling — and what happens next.
Disappointment in a safe context is a rehearsal for resilience.
Skills Built
🤝 Collaboration 😤 Frustration tolerance 🔄 Repair and resilience
4️⃣ My Calm-Down Kit
Purpose: Give children ownership over their own regulation tools by building something they can return to again and again.
Materials
Small box, bag, or basket
Items to fill it together (suggestions below)
Optional: label or decorate the outside
Calm-Down Kit Ideas to Gather Together
A small squeeze ball or stress ball
A pinwheel or a strip of paper for slow breathing
A smooth rock or soft fabric swatch (sensory grounding)
A drawing of their "calm place"
A mini glitter jar (make one: water + glitter glue in a sealed bottle)
Setup
Say:
"Everyone's body feels big feelings sometimes. Today we're building your very own calm-down kit — things that help your body feel better when feelings get really big."
Let them lead the choosing.
How to Play
Gather 3–5 items together.
For each one, ask: "How does this help your body feel calmer?"
Practice using each item before putting it in.
Decorate the box together if desired.
Place it somewhere accessible — their room, a shelf they can reach.
Return to it during the week. When a big feeling arrives, redirect: "Let's go get your calm-down kit."
Friction Point
Choosing tools before they're needed — planning for a feeling that isn't present yet.
That forward thinking is emotional self-awareness in action.
Skills Built
🧘 Self-regulation 🧠 Emotional planning ✋ Sensory processing
5️⃣ Feelings Color Lab
Purpose: Use color mixing as a metaphor for blended emotions — introducing the idea that we can feel more than one thing at a time.
Materials
Watercolor paints or liquid food coloring
Clear cups or a muffin tin
Water
Dropper or spoon
White paper or paper towels
Setup
Say:
"Did you know feelings are kind of like colors? Sometimes we feel one feeling. And sometimes feelings mix together — just like colors do."
Demonstrate: mix red and yellow together. "What color did we get? What if feelings did that too?"
How to Play
Assign feelings to colors together. (Example: red = angry, yellow = happy, blue = sad, green = silly)
Ask: "Can you show me a day when you felt happy AND a little nervous?"
Child mixes those two colors and names the new feeling.
Experiment freely — mix 3 colors, try light vs. dark.
Ask: "What does this color feel like in your body?"
Let the science lead and the conversation follow. There's no wrong mixture.
Friction Point
Accepting that two feelings can exist at the same time.
That's a genuinely complex emotional concept — and the color mixing makes it concrete and visible.
Skills Built
🧪 Scientific observation 🎨 Creative expression 🧠 Emotional complexity awareness
🌼 Little Explorers
1️⃣ Feelings Faces in Playdough
Purpose: Use sensory play to explore and name emotions without pressure.
Materials
Playdough (any color)
Optional: simple drawn face templates to reference
Setup
Say:
"Let's make feeling faces out of playdough."
Start with happy together. Model as you go.
How to Play
Make a happy face together — two eyes, a big smile.
Ask: "Can you make a sad face?"
Work through 2–3 feelings at a comfortable pace.
Name each one as you build it.
No pressure to rush. Squishing and rebuilding is part of the fun.
Friction Point
Choosing which face to make — and naming it.
Even that small decision builds emotional vocabulary.
Skills Built
🧠 Early emotional vocabulary ✋ Fine motor 😊 Self-expression
2️⃣ Big Feelings Movement Game
Purpose: Connect emotions to body sensations through guided movement.
Materials
Open floor space
Optional: simple music
Setup
Say:
"Some feelings make our body want to move. Let's find out how!"
How to Play
Call out a feeling.
Ask: "How does [feeling] move?"
Move together — stomp for angry, melt slowly for tired, jump for excited, tiptoe for scared.
Freeze between each one.
Ask: "What does that feeling feel like in your tummy?"
Follow their lead. If they invent a new move — use it.
Friction Point
Translating a feeling into a physical action.
That body-emotion connection is an early foundation for regulation.
Skills Built
🏃 Gross motor development 🧠 Emotional body awareness 😊 Self-expression
Parent Tip of the Week
When your child is in the middle of a big feeling, the instinct is to fix it fast:
"You're okay." "Stop crying." "It's not a big deal."
But feelings that get dismissed don't disappear. They just go underground.
Instead of fixing, try naming:
"You look really frustrated right now." "That felt so unfair, didn't it?" "It makes sense you're sad about that." "I see how much you wanted that."
You don't have to agree with the reaction. You just have to acknowledge the feeling underneath it.
That validation doesn't make feelings bigger. It makes them safer to feel — and faster to move through.
You're not raising a child who never feels hard things.
You're raising a child who knows their feelings are allowed.
That's the foundation everything else is built on.
Closing Reflection
This week won't look like perfect emotional conversations.
It will look like:
A meltdown in the middle of an activity. A feeling that doesn't have a word yet. A moment where you both got frustrated. And a repair that happened anyway.
That's not failure. That's the whole point.
Emotional development isn't linear. It's messy and repetitive and slow.
But every time you name a feeling out loud — every time you stay curious instead of reactive — every time you say "that makes sense" instead of "stop it" —
you're building something your child will carry for the rest of their life.
Keep going. 💛
