Welcome to week 48 of Wonder Weeks: a year of creativity, curiosity and connections. ☀️ This Week’s Theme: Big Feelings, Busy Hands

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Big feelings don’t need fixing.

They need somewhere to go. 🌊

When children are frustrated, excited, overwhelmed, or stuck, their nervous systems aren’t asking for a lesson — they’re asking for engagement. Something active. Something absorbing. Something they can control.

This week’s activities are built around the idea that movement + purpose = regulation. Through building, transporting, directing, and creating, kids process emotion while staying deeply involved in play.

No forced calm 😮‍💨
No sitting still 🚫🪑
Just meaningful work for busy hands 👐✨

(Construction Play for Emotional Release)

Materials:
Blocks, cardboard boxes, couch cushions, or recycled containers

How to Play:
Invite your child to build something tall, wide, or strong. When they decide it’s ready, give full permission to knock it down — with hands, a ball, or their whole body.

Then rebuild.
Repeat as long as interest holds 🔁

Why It Works:
Building creates focus 🧠. Knocking down releases energy 💨. Rebuilding restores control 💪.

Extend It:

(Purposeful Heavy Work With a Goal)

Materials:
Laundry basket, backpack, wagon, box + household items

How to Play:
Create two zones in your space: Zone A ➡️ Zone B.

Your child’s mission is to move everything from A to B in any way they choose:

No rushing ⏳. No efficiency coaching 🙅‍♀️.

Why It Works:
Resistance + repetition + autonomy = regulation 🧠✨
Kids stay engaged longer because there’s a mission, not just a task.

Extend It:

(Process Art, Not Product)

Materials:
Paper, crayons, markers, paint, or chalk

How to Play:
Offer materials and one open prompt:

Then step back 👀💛

Why It Works:
No right outcome = more freedom, more expression, more regulation 🌈

Extend It:

(Power + Regulation in One Game)

Materials:
None

How to Play:
You become the “chaos.”

Your child gives directions for how you move:

You dramatically follow their instructions.

Why It Works:
Kids who feel overwhelmed often need control, not calm 🎯
Directing an adult = safe power = regulation.

Extend It:

(Deep Focus + Emotional Safety)

Materials:
Blocks, loose parts, cardboard, tape, or natural items

How to Play:
Invite your child to start building something with no expectation of finishing.

At some point, say:
“We’ll come back to this later.” 💬

Leave it out.
Return later and continue 🕰️

Why It Works:
This teaches:

Extend It:

Create a short path using pillows, boxes, or soft furniture. Invite your toddler to push a basket, pull a toy, or crawl through at their own pace.

Why It Works:
Heavy movement supports early regulation and body awareness 🧠💪

Offer a small basket and safe items (balls, blocks, soft toys). Let your toddler dump, refill, and carry items between two spots.

Why It Works:
Repetition + control = calm engagement 🔁✨

Tape large paper to the floor and offer chunky crayons. Let crawling, reaching, and stretching lead the marks.

Why It Works:
Whole-body art supports early emotional expression 💛

You don’t have to talk children through big feelings in the moment.

When emotions run high, most children don’t yet have access to language, logic, or reflection. Their bodies are leading — not their words.

That’s where play comes in.

Purposeful movement, building, carrying, creating, and directing give feelings somewhere to go. These experiences help children regulate first — and make meaning later.

Connection doesn’t always sound like a conversation.
Sometimes it looks like sitting nearby, joining the play, and letting busy hands do the work.

Big feelings don’t disappear when we name them.

They settle when they’re held — through movement, presence, and shared play.

Busy hands can hold what words can’t yet carry.